This month, I’m focusing on the power of stopping—one of the five foundation points of LifeStar. In a world that often glorifies exhaustion as a status symbol and equates productivity with self-worth[1], it's crucial to understand the importance of pausing.
As leaders and professionals, you often face numerous barriers to stopping. Here are some common obstacles:
Not stopping has severe consequences. You deplete your reserves, and that means you will have lower levels of resilience reserves, will be more prone to mental and physical illnesses and have less capacity to adapt and foster meaningful connection. Not stopping increases the chance that you will experience the following:
- Burnout: Constant work without breaks can lead to burnout, affecting our personal and professional lives.
- Decreased Productivity: Ironically, not taking breaks can make us less productive. Our brains need rest to function optimally.
- Lower Performance: Without adequate rest, our performance suffers. We become less focused, creative, and effective in our roles.
Embracing the power of stopping has numerous benefits in our work and life.
As leaders, you can set an example for your teams. When you prioritise stopping and rest, you give your team members permission to do the same. This creates a culture of wellbeing and high performance. It doesn’t matter how many times you say to your team “take a break”. If the team doesn’t see you taking your own advice, ithey may not trust that it is OK to take a break.
Incorporating stops and rest into your daily routine doesn't have to be complicated. In LifeStar coaching and programmes, I encourage you to fill your life with what you enjoy doing. Following are some ideas and inspiration for creating your own routines and rituals.
- Morning Routine: Start your day with a quiet moment, a morning workout, or a mindfulness practice. This sets the tone for a calm and centred day.
- Work Life: Acknowledge your team members' efforts and celebrate small wins. Crossing off a significant task on your and their to-do list can give you a sense of accomplishment and progress.
- Family Time: Enjoy undivided attention during family dinner or read to your kids before bedtime. These moments create special bonds and fully allow you to appreciate your loved ones.
- Me Time: Indulge in your favourite hobby or take a warm bath with a good book. These activities allow you to relax and recharge.
Even small moments of stopping can have a significant positive impact. Taking a short mindfulness break during the day, preparing and enjoying a healthy meal, or catching up with friends over coffee can all contribute to your wellbeing.
Here are some questions to help you reflect on how you spend your stop time and how aligned it is with what you enjoy doing:
At LifeStar, Stop is one of the five foundation points essential for living with energy reserves, resilience, and the ability to respond to unforeseen situations. By incorporating stop and rest into your life, you can live with more energy, calm, and impact at work and home.
Join me this month in embracing the pause and unlocking the power of stopping.
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[1] Brené Brown discusses this in her book "The Gifts of Imperfection".